...ose who rebuke me do not love me, but judge me. 放纵自己里面被拒绝伤害的营垒，让黑暗抵挡了神的光，不愿就光，无数次的忧愁沉沦、愤怒、恨人杀人，进到黑暗里…I have given in to the strongholds of rejection and pain. I have let darkness resist You...
...损失。后来我明白，若丈夫活在旧人里，权柄带来的只是伤害；I once misused my authority as a husband, and my wife suffered with me through many hardships and losses. Later I realised that when a husband lives in the old self, authority only wounds;但若丈夫活在新人里...
...wounds and brought me
salvation.这使我明白，许多人之间彼此的伤害，其实是神允许的、被神用来医治与塑造我们的内在，使我们学习恒久忍耐和舍己、成为彼此相爱的肢体。This helps me see that many of the hurts between people are allowed
by You an...
...，我曾挣扎，抗拒，但祢温柔地对我说：“我为那些伤害你的人钉上十字架，也为你的罪钉上十字架，难道这些还不够吗？”Lord, when You called me to forgive my parents, I struggled and resisted. But You gently spoke to my heart: “I was nailed...
...我多么努力奋斗，都不能脱离仇恨、情欲、论断、被拒绝伤害的模式。No matter how hard I strive, I cannot escape the pattern of hatred, lust, judgment, and the wounds of rejection. 我的投资永远是亏损和失败…跟妻子总是吵架争论对错，婚姻也好...
...uo;更是照着肉体的感受，你对我好，我就对你好，你一旦伤害我，我就不理你，计算你的恶，不饶恕，恨你了。As natural humans, we used to live according to the flesh, eat whatever we wanted, and do whatever we desired. Once our desire to "get" was thwarted, we ...
...绝一切的论断、不服、背逆、负面想象的谎言，胜过拒绝伤害，因信竭力饶恕跟自己有摩擦的人，寻求和睦。I ask the Holy Spirit to put to death within me the need to argue over right and wrong, to reject all judgement, resistance, rebellion, and the lies of nega...
...e of good and evil.” 我们又一次次顺从情欲与骄傲，陷入伤害、不饶恕、论断与拒绝，这些情感、思维与行为模式逐渐形成我们旧人的坚固营垒。Time and again we yield to lust and pride, falling into hurt, unforgiveness, judgment, and rejection. These ...