...wounds and brought me
salvation.这使我明白，许多人之间彼此的伤害，其实是神允许的、被神用来医治与塑造我们的内在，使我们学习恒久忍耐和舍己、成为彼此相爱的肢体。This helps me see that many of the hurts between people are allowed
by You an...
...，我曾挣扎，抗拒，但祢温柔地对我说：“我为那些伤害你的人钉上十字架，也为你的罪钉上十字架，难道这些还不够吗？”Lord, when You called me to forgive my parents, I struggled and resisted. But You gently spoke to my heart: “I was nailed...
...抗的时候，心里的防线也曾到了“地极”： 委屈、伤害、吵架，自卑自怜、把我逼到心灵的“地极”，让我心觉得极其“发昏”、想要自暴自弃。When I am rejected or opposed by brothers, sisters, or family
members, my inner de...
...我多么努力奋斗，都不能脱离仇恨、情欲、论断、被拒绝伤害的模式。No matter how hard I strive, I cannot escape the pattern of hatred, lust, judgment, and the wounds of rejection. 我的投资永远是亏损和失败…跟妻子总是吵架争论对错，婚姻也好...
...uo;更是照着肉体的感受，你对我好，我就对你好，你一旦伤害我，我就不理你，计算你的恶，不饶恕，恨你了。As natural humans, we used to live according to the flesh, eat whatever we wanted, and do whatever we desired. Once our desire to "get" was thwarted, we ...
...绝一切的论断、不服、背逆、负面想象的谎言，胜过拒绝伤害，因信竭力饶恕跟自己有摩擦的人，寻求和睦。I ask the Holy Spirit to put to death within me the need to argue over right and wrong, to reject all judgement, resistance, rebellion, and the lies of nega...
...，没有真实悔改转向你，我得罪了你，伤透了你的心，也伤害了爱我的人，你不愿意我死亡，无数次救我，你为救我舍了你的生命…我怎能继续鞭打你，弃绝你？Please forgive me. I was deceived by sin, my heart became hardened,
I refused to ...
...得祢配给我的丈夫不是我想要的那种，就常常恶言恶语、伤害丈夫，百般用老我的肉体和巫术去操纵丈夫，只为满足自己的私欲。In my marriage, I felt that the husband You had given me was not the
kind of husband I wanted, so I often spoke cruel and hurtfu...
...e of good and evil.” 我们又一次次顺从情欲与骄傲，陷入伤害、不饶恕、论断与拒绝，这些情感、思维与行为模式逐渐形成我们旧人的坚固营垒。Time and again we yield to lust and pride, falling into hurt, unforgiveness, judgment, and rejection. These ...