...ose who rebuke me do not love me, but judge me. 放纵自己里面被拒绝伤害的营垒，让黑暗抵挡了神的光，不愿就光，无数次的忧愁沉沦、愤怒、恨人杀人，进到黑暗里…I have given in to the strongholds of rejection and pain. I have let darkness resist You...
...损失。后来我明白，若丈夫活在旧人里，权柄带来的只是伤害；I once misused my authority as a husband, and my wife suffered with me through many hardships and losses. Later I realised that when a husband lives in the old self, authority only wounds;但若丈夫活在新人里...
...wounds and brought me
salvation.这使我明白，许多人之间彼此的伤害，其实是神允许的、被神用来医治与塑造我们的内在，使我们学习恒久忍耐和舍己、成为彼此相爱的肢体。This helps me see that many of the hurts between people are allowed
by You an...
...，我曾挣扎，抗拒，但祢温柔地对我说：“我为那些伤害你的人钉上十字架，也为你的罪钉上十字架，难道这些还不够吗？”Lord, when You called me to forgive my parents, I struggled and resisted. But You gently spoke to my heart: “I was nailed...
...和不信而放弃自己的使命。祂被羞辱，却没有报复；祂被伤害，却依然去爱；祂被钉在十字架上，还为那些钉祂的人祈求饶恕。 Look at Jesus. He did not live according to the expectations of
sinful people, nor did He abandon His mission because of rejection...
...抗的时候，心里的防线也曾到了“地极”： 委屈、伤害、吵架，自卑自怜、把我逼到心灵的“地极”，让我心觉得极其“发昏”、想要自暴自弃。When I am rejected or opposed by brothers, sisters, or family
members, my inner de...
...我多么努力奋斗，都不能脱离仇恨、情欲、论断、被拒绝伤害的模式。No matter how hard I strive, I cannot escape the pattern of hatred, lust, judgment, and the wounds of rejection. 我的投资永远是亏损和失败…跟妻子总是吵架争论对错，婚姻也好...
...uo;更是照着肉体的感受，你对我好，我就对你好，你一旦伤害我，我就不理你，计算你的恶，不饶恕，恨你了。As natural humans, we used to live according to the flesh, eat whatever we wanted, and do whatever we desired. Once our desire to "get" was thwarted, we ...
...绝一切的论断、不服、背逆、负面想象的谎言，胜过拒绝伤害，因信竭力饶恕跟自己有摩擦的人，寻求和睦。I ask the Holy Spirit to put to death within me the need to argue over right and wrong, to reject all judgement, resistance, rebellion, and the lies of nega...