【弗4:32】并要以恩慈相待，存怜悯的心，彼此饶恕，正如神在基督里饶恕了你们一样。【Eph4: 32】Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.

保罗提醒我们，不要叫圣灵担忧，要除去苦毒、恼恨、忿怒、嚷闹、毁谤和一切恶毒——这些属旧人的性情之后，更要积极地活出恩慈、怜悯、饶恕。这三样正是神的性情。Paul reminds us not to grieve the Holy Spirit but to get rid of bitterness, anger, rage, shouting, slander, and every kind of malice. After putting off these old-nature attitudes, we’re called to actively live out kindness, compassion, and forgiveness—these are the very qualities of God Himself.神的爱是恒久忍耐，又有恩慈；祂有怜悯、有恩典，没有照我们的过犯待我们。主耶稣在十字架上最痛苦时，仍为我们祈求：“父啊，赦免他们，因为他们所做的，他们不晓得。”（路23:34）救恩的核心，就是神在基督里饶恕了我们。God’s love is patient and kind; He is full of mercy and grace, and He doesn’t treat us as our sins deserve. Even when the Lord Jesus was in His deepest pain on the cross, He prayed for us, saying, “Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they’re doing” (Luke 23:34). The heart of salvation is that God forgave us in Christ.

主耶稣教导门徒祷告时说：“你们饶恕人的过犯，你们的天父也必饶恕你们；你们不饶恕人的过犯，你们的天父也必不饶恕你们。”（太6:14–15）祂又告诉彼得，要七十个七次饶恕弟兄。When Jesus taught His disciples how to pray, He said, “If you forgive others for their sins, your heavenly Father will also forgive you; but if you don’t forgive others, your Father won’t forgive your sins either” (Matthew 6:14–15). He also told Peter to forgive his brother seventy times seven.随后主讲了一个比喻：一个仆人被主人免了一千万银子的债，却揪住欠他十两银子的同伴不放。这正是我们得救后，却常常忘恩的样子：领受了神极大的饶恕，却仍不肯饶恕他人，结果是：把自己交给掌刑的，直到还清所欠的一切（太18:34–35）。Then Jesus told a parable: a servant whose master forgave a debt of ten thousand talents, yet he grabbed his fellow servant who owed him just ten denarii and refused to let him go. This is just like us after being saved—so often ungrateful. We’ve received God’s great forgiveness, yet still refuse to forgive others. The result is that we hand ourselves over to torment until the debt is fully paid (Matthew 18:34–35).

主啊，多少次我把自己放在受害者的位置上，计算人的恶，不肯饶恕，被怨恨与苦毒折磨。直到我在软弱中呼求你的怜悯，看见自己的罪，被你的恩慈引领悔改。当我接受你的饶恕，去饶恕那同样被罪捆绑的人时，我重新得着医治、平安与喜乐。Lord, how often have I placed myself in the role of the victim, keeping count of others’ wrongs, refusing to forgive, and being consumed by resentment and bitterness. But when I cried out for Your mercy in my weakness, I saw my own sin and was led by Your kindness to repentance. When I accepted Your forgiveness and forgave those who were also bound by sin, You restored my healing, peace, and joy.主啊，求你不断开启我，认识我对你的亏欠。越知道被你赦免的多，爱你才能更多；也才能饶恕人更多。感谢你借着每一个环境，让我经历“被饶恕”与“去饶恕”的恩典，在怜悯中学习像耶稣。Lord, keep opening my eyes to see how much I owe You. The more I know I’ve been forgiven, the more I’ll love You—and the more I’ll be able to forgive others. Thank You for using every circumstance to let me experience the grace of both “being forgiven” and “forgiving,” learning through mercy to become more like Jesus.

主啊，你吩咐我们彼此饶恕，不是因为我比别人有义，而是因为你先饶恕了我、赦免了我、拯救了我。在你的爱中，我愿意放手，饶恕那曾伤害我的人，也求你洁净我心中隐藏的不饶恕与自义。Lord, You command us to forgive one another—not because I’m more righteous than others, but because You first forgave, pardoned, and saved me. In Your love, I choose to let go and forgive those who’ve hurt me. Please cleanse my heart from hidden unforgiveness and self-righteousness.愿你的爱、怜悯与饶恕掌管我，使我活出你的性情，成为和平之子，在伤痕之处传递你的爱，让更多人因饶恕得赦免，得医治，得释放，也成为你爱的使者，传扬你十字架上的大爱！May Your love, mercy, and forgiveness rule in me, so I live out Your character and become a peacemaker—bringing Your love to wounded hearts. May more people find forgiveness, healing, and freedom through forgiving others, and become messengers of Your love, sharing the great love of Your cross!

（付传道Pastor Fu）