...他，却发现自己所谓的爱，里面全是肉体的惧怕、辖制与掌控。越努力，光景越糟。I desperately tried to hold onto him and change him, only to
discover that what I called love was actually full of fear, control, and
manipulation. The harder I tried, the worse things be...
...es.如果我常思想忧虑的事，住在忧虑中，我就会被忧虑所掌控。 If I dwell
on worry, I will be ruled by worry.如果我常住在恐惧中，我就会被恐惧所支配。 If I dwell
on fear, I will be controlled by fear.如果我常住在愤怒或感觉被冒犯中，我就会...
...中，“休息”的含义是：“停止挣扎、放下自我掌控、松开紧抓的手，让神来接管。” In the original meaning, “be still” means to stop striving, let go
of self-control, loosen the grip of our own efforts, and allow God to take
over. 这不...
...dash; only in myself.我以为只要依靠自己的聪明和努力，就能掌控生活的一切。I thought if I just leaned on my own smarts and hard work, I could control everything in life.然而，事实却是家庭破裂、夫妻疏远、亲子隔阂、经济拮据，心中满是苦楚。我...
...的心，那么丈夫的爱就必须以基督为榜样——不是掌控、不是支配，而是牺牲与成全。Here Paul shifts the focus to the husband’s calling. If a wife’s submission flows from reverence for Christ, then a husband’s love must follow the example of Ch...